Clarity is the First Step to Reconnection
Break free from the cycle of living like roommates. Find out what’s strong, what’s missing, and where to go next—together.
The 10 Pillars of Connection is a fast, supportive self-assessment for couples who want deeper connection. In just a few minutes, you’ll rate 50 statements across 10 key areas using a simple 1 to 5 scale. Your personalized results reveal your relationship’s strongest foundations and your biggest opportunities for growth—visualized in a clear breakdown. Built on the Connected Marriage framework and created by the author of The Connected Marriage, this scorecard is private, practical, and rooted in research: couples who intentionally address weak areas are more likely to report lasting satisfaction. Take the checkup and get honest, actionable feedback—no judgment, just clarity and a path forward.
Check Your Marriage Across 10 Pillars
Compatibility
Enjoying and being like minded with similar hobbies, morals, and values.
Intellectual
The depth of your conversations including thinking outside the box, opinions, creativeness, and complex ideas.
Playfulness
Your capacity for laughter, fun, and shared enjoyment as a couple
Teamwork
How effectively you support each other in daily life and big decisions without harboring resentment
Accountability
Your willingness to own mistakes, keep promises, and build trust
Conflict Resolution
How you handle disagreements and repair ruptures in your relationship
Romance
The expression pursuing, being pursued, and intentionality
Physical
Your connection through non-sexual and sexual touch
Emotional
How well you understand, support, and care for each other’s feelings through empathy and sympathy
Spiritual
The sense of shared purpose, meaning, and values that guide your marriage through Biblical principles
Ready to Reconnect?
Take the free, private 10 Pillars of Connection Assessment and discover your unique strengths and growth areas. Enter your email to get your detailed pillar breakdown instantly in your inbox.
